Emotion

Emotion. If drug is the No.1 enemy for our country. Who is our No.1 enemy? We our self are our enemy in self. Everyday morning the moment we opened our eyes, we have many thought for the day. Maybe we think of lazy to scholl or work. Or we plan to do something else from what we suppose to do. We forget our in self are biggest enemy. But we never realise it in everyday. We hate this and that. Him or her. Because of this and that. Why we not hate our self? Think of it.

Emotion control us or we control the emotion? EQ.

Cheers.~

Selfish

Let's we go to market for this post and we talk about the topic of "sell fish". Always we know that some of the bad attitude that we shouldn't be follow or learn in our life. But sometimes we used it in our life. In the reason of to protect our self from being harm from others. Just a perfect reason for us to harm others people. We tend to use "selfishness" to protect our self. What about others people? You tend to harm them just to protect from you being harm? And back to the point, just admit yourself are selfish to others. Back to our choice. You choose for yourself, and please, don't give a reason why you did that and you been done that the fact is nothing can turn back. Just admit it that you are selfish. In the name to protect our self, we, human tend to do what ever to protect our self. No matter what, our self priority always come first. And I'm wondering? Who will be the second? We are not living in a world that which only yourself. We living in a group. For sure more than two persons. But we still have selfishness in our self. Or the first day we are fetus in our mummy tummy gave us the first impression we are alone in the world? But we are not.

To reach our goal, satisfication, will and etc. We tend to choose to be selfish. There is endless hurting each other at the end of the world.

Cheers.~

Gender

There are only two type of gender in this world. This not including the 'uncommon' type of gender. Still the same like always what we heard, girls don't like to be themselves thinking how wonder to be a boy. And also the same to the boy, wondering the same thing. Is it so important why we care what gender we are? We so care about the differ of the gender. Why not we appreciate what gender we are now? Life should be more better now if we know how to appreciate what we have now and not wondering what we don't have now. Human are so much funny. Gals or boys or any others gender are the same in this world. In this decade, discrimination of gender are lesser by the year. This should be a good news for the group of being discriminate by history. And until now, the matter are still there. And yet some of the gender not satisfy what gender they are. They thinking of they should be have little privilage from the others gender. And at some moment, they will say all gender are the same. Quite confusing right? This question should be understand by a group of gender.

My point here is no matter what gender you are, boys or girls, the opposite side of the gender think the same thing, need the same thing. I'm not saying girls like to put on cosmetic and the boys need the cosmetic. What I mean here is the girls like to keep themself at the perfect beauty to show others people and same to the boys like to keep themselve always the smart condition to show to the girls. And this same apply to the care, love, need and etc. So, please stop thinking of I have the privilage to received more attention than boys or I need more care and so on. Don't you think with this mindset of thinking, you are a little bit selfish or greed? or unfair to others gender? Privilage? If you think for the opposite of the people you communicate with, there is privilage. There is no privilage what we suppose to give but we create the privilage what suppose we to give and do it. Honestly, no matter how much privilage we give, there is no satisfication.

Cheers.~

Matter of Yourself

In our life, we frequent have many excuses, blaming or argument with others people. Just the funny thing is we never blaming for our self, never or none in our life thinking of our fault why this could be happened. Never or none? We couldn't or we don't want to? Maybe that the easiest way we to get out from the matter. Runaway. In Chinese exercise, there are 'tai chi'. A slow movement exercise that we could master the flow of 'chi' in our self. But in this society, everyone know what is 'tai chi' really about. The 'push' (a movement in exercise 'tai chi') of every matter to others people, and never we try to 'push' into our self. As we could see in our daily life. So, when is the real time that we really could accept our cons. If you say I'm still too young to know the matter of wrong or right, what about after when you are getting marriage? My life just started beginning to others stage and then of course there is a mistake. And what about after the age you need a stick to walk with you? I'm too old to change anything. My experience in this world more than you. How could you say I'm wrong? So, when is the time in our life we really could accept our self, our fault, or our wrong? Or maybe we doesn't want to wake up from what we doing now 'tai chi'? In one day, we got no improvement to our self because we never admit what we did wrong and never try to do it in a right way. Where the improvement come from? Our life will just stick there forever at the wrong way.

Never too late for us to change. For better tomorrow. For your own good or others.

Cheers.~

MisUnderstanding.

Everything had been happen awhile. And the main cause are as the title. Our mind is kinda complicated. Differ people have differ thinking way. Even is your family, close friends or your partner of life have differ way to think a subject, to analysis the subject or object. Been a problem to us since we try to communicate with others people in this society, but somehow the problem still there even how hard we try to avoid it. I'm sure all of us couldn't avoid to facing this problem, the main point solution here is the explanation. Or the only way to avoid it become worse if we just let the misunderstood going on and on. Is not easy to accept others people explanation if we don't trust him/her. Maybe the outcome become even worse. Nobody knows what will happen next. But at least we have been try to state clearly what we really mean for our message, or our movement. Is not easy to be communicate well. Even sometimes we doesn't communicate well to our self. However, we still need to continue our life, and communicate. Part of our life that couldn't runaway. There's the problem, There's the solution. How you wanna to avoid this misunderstanding or how you wanna solve this problem, depend on yourself. Trust me, don't lie single word. That's won't make your story beautiful but hurts.

The story might could or couldn't as you think. The outcome might be like that or not. However nobody knows how it happen or what is really the fact. As we are human, like always what we did, we choose the acceptable way and reason why it was happened.

Cheers.~

Part of the bloG, Part of my life

"Part of the blog, Part of my life". This quote from the movie Pirates of Caribbean Disney movie "Part of the ship, Part of the crew". From this blog I will try to write in part of my life here since everyone around me are starting to blogging and most important point is i'M in holiday now. Plenty of time to blogging. This blog only could be view for certain people, not much. For my close relatives or my friends. Nothing much interesting about myself. Why I coose biG Head as my blogspot name? I think most of you who reading now know the reason behind. Stay cool to keep my blog update.

Cheers.~